Sunday, August 10, 2008

USING WHAT IS IN YOU

There is a gold mine hidden in every life. Nature never
Made a failure. Every man has success hidden away in his soul. No one else can find it but himself.
He holds the key to the hidden room. Failure comes because we never sought that hidden treasure. Failure comes because we tried to find it somewhere else. You can’t find it anywhere else.
Success, victory, achievement are in you. The exceptional people are those who develop what is within them.
That quartetis wining fame and success because they developed what they had in them .singly they could not do it but in united they make a harmony that thrills the heart.
The soloist had it in her .it was there and she developed it and made it of commercial value.
A father was dying .he had two sons .the boys had always felt that he had gold that he had hidden away somewhere .he had never been a strong, healthy man so his farm was not developed .back of the house there was ten acres of stump land .when he was dying he said ,the stump lot. Again he said the stump lot as soon as the funeral was over the boys said; the gold is out in the stump lot. How feverishly they worked .they tore up every inch of it .but they found no gold then the older one said, we have the land in good condition, let’s put in corn .in the autumn they found in the ripened corn the gold. You have a stump lot in you dig it up clean it up and you will find the gold in it……….

Friday, August 8, 2008

10 Easy Success Tips To Help You Achieve Your Ambitions In Life

I want to wish you good health, long life, success and happiness.
Most people are capable of setting up goals for them to achieve.
That is the easy part.
The difficult part is in the implementation of those goals.
Psychologists, Janet Polivy and Peter Herman, reported that 25% of new year’s resolutions will be abandoned in the first 15 weeks; the average number of times an individual makes a new year’s resolution is 10, and that those whose resolutions lasted for about 6 months or more often tried 5 or 6 times before they succeeded.
For many years until recently, I was unable to keep any of my new year’s resolutions. So, my friend, you’re not alone.
This caused a lot of hardship in my life. I had many personal bad habits I wanted to get rid of, but due to lack of self-discipline and control, I was unable to do so.
Since 3 years ago, my life has changed and improved because of a few strategies I developed that helped me kick my bad habits, improve myself and achieve my ambitions in life.
What is your new year’s resolution?
Do you want to lose weight?
Do you want to stop smoking?
Do you want to stop drinking?
Do you want to kick your drug habit?
Do you want to stop gambling?
Do you want to make three times more money this year?
Whatever your resolutions and goals may be, you can succeed if you adopt a few easy strategies I want to reveal.
Permit me to share with you 10 of these easy tips that have helped me keep my new year’s resolutions and make them work for me.
(1) Be reasonable
Know your weaknesses, define them and commit to improving yourself. Do all that is reasonable and legal to kick your bad habits and change your life for the better.
Have reasonable expectations.
For example if you’re 100Ibs overweight, it will be unreasonable to expect to lose all of it in a week!
However, if you make a commitment to engage in more physical exercises, eat healthy food and allow about 3 months, then that will be reasonable and you may succeed.
I was 100 Ibs overweight for many years, but by being reasonable, I have lost all the extra weight!
Make a resolution because it is right for you and will help you succeed in life and not because you want to please others or because it is fashionable.
You can’t please anyone until you’ve pleased yourself.
Set priorities. Start with small goals and resolutions and work your way up to the jumbo ones.
(2) Don’t bite more than you can chew
Take it easy on yourself. You’re human, not a machine. Don’t make too many resolutions, which will then be hard for you to keep and cause you to fail and feel disappointed and hopeless.
Make about 2-3 resolutions at a time. Be very clear about the bad habits that you wish to kick or goals that you desire to achieve.
Don’t make a decision to kick a habit unless you’re ready for it.
For example some people who have been smoking or drinking alcohol for many years have noticed that each time they decided to quit they have failed.
The reason is that they may not be physically or mentally ready yet to stop.
When you smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol, there are many biological and chemical activities involved.
The cells and organs in your body change and become dependent on the chemicals in the cigarettes (nicotine) and alcohol.
Therefore even though you have realized the dangers of smoking or drinking, you may not be able to suddenly wake up from sleep and decide to stop.
Those cells and organs in your body may still continue to need the chemicals.
This is the cause of the “urge”, “desire”, or “craving” that you feel to smoke or drink.
So, take it easy. Withdraw from bad habits slowly. If you smoke a pack of cigarettes a day, start by cutting it down to half a pack daily and continue until someday, suddenly, the urge to smoke will stop.
And stop blaming yourself for the bad habits. Accept your bad habits, but determine to kick them.
Acceptance frees you slowly from the bad habits. Guilt and self- condemnation splits your energy and ties you more and more to the bad habits, so avoid these feelings.
You can apply the same strategy to kick any bad habit. Slowly and steadily, if you persevere, you’ll win!
(3) Write your resolutions down.
After you’ve clearly realized and defined your weaknesses and bad habits, write them down in a notebook. Write all your goals and ambitions down in a notebook.
This is one way to get mentally and physically committed to taking action.
Bad habits are all the behavior and personality traits that block your way in life and make it difficult for you to achieve your dreams and ambitions.
If you don’t know your weaknesses and habits in life, perhaps you can do what I did and ask any of your enemies to tell you.
(Tip: Don’t ask family members or friends. They will never tell you the truth because they are afraid of offending you. Only enemies can help you. And if you have no enemy, make one on purpose!)
(4) Picturize your resolutions daily.
Be sure you have easy access to your notebook in which you wrote down your resolutions, goals and ambitions.
Read your resolutions at least twice a day, first thing in the morning and also just before you go to sleep in the night. Think about and mentally picturize your resolutions.
See yourself in the eye of your mind succeeding with all your resolutions, goals and ambitions.
Smile and tell yourself all the time that you have the willpower, the self-control and discipline to run your life and to achieve all that you desire.
This is a good way to program your mind and thoughts. Instead of allowing others, TV, radio and magazine advertisements to program your mind and thoughts, control you and thereby force you to engage in bad habits, take matters into your hands and begin to constantly program your mind and thoughts with positive affirmations for success and happiness.
(5) Search for and obtain tools and resources that can help you actualize your resolutions, goals and ambitions.
It is not enough to know your weaknesses, set up goals and also visualize them.
You must also obtain the necessary tools and resources to use to make your resolutions, goals and ambitions succeed.
For this reason, the Internet is a powerful tool for you. Search out and read articles on various topics to obtain valid useful information.
Buy and view “How To Videos” to learn any skills you need. Go to Cbmall Storefront (a Clickbank Store), where you can find 10,000 different e-books that can provide solutions to any problems you may have and provide you with insight into how to handle difficult aspects of your life.
Information and its correct application is power. To search and obtain the right information is going half way to solving your problems.
(6) Read good books on various subjects.
Get into the habit of reading good books, articles and magazines because that is one way to increase your knowledge and perspective in life.
The more you read good books, the more educated, intelligent and sharp you’ll be.
Go to your nearest public library and borrow good books. The last time I went to my nearest public library, I borrowed 20 books at a time. Do you get it? Reading very good books is one way that I have obtained the knowledge I am sharing with you here.
Read good magazines. Borrow good movies from your nearest public library and watch and try to learn a lesson from it.
You can find time to read. When you come back from work, after having your meal, read a book. When going to work, if you ride the train or use any other public transportation, read a book.
Any time you have free time, read a good book!
(7) Network with family members, friends and colleagues.
Go out and meet your friends and discuss their problems as well as yours.
Join clubs, associations and groups and mingle with others. Make friends daily where you go! By doing this, you’ll gain insight into human conditions and their problems. This will help you then understand your own problems and how to solve them.
Talk about other people’s problem all the time, as well as yours. Make the world know what you’re thinking. Go out. Be bold.
Communicate with others. Phone others. Chat with others. E-mail other people. Say something. Open your mouth and say “hello” to others. (Don’t worry, they won’t bite you!) Talk to other human beings! Get the load off your chest.
Know what is going in your city, state and the world. Read the news. Rise, shine and succeed.
(8) Update your resolutions continuously.
A lot of times the resolutions you set up may not work out as you planned.
So, be ready to keep revising and updating them. Be flexible. Bend but don’t break. Keep all options open.
Be pragmatic and be willing to look at every aspect of a situation before forming an opinion.
Flow with the times and with life.
When you attain a goal or achieve a resolution, delete it from your list and replace it with another one. View your resolutions and goals daily. Be possessed by them.
If you do that, sooner or later, it will start impacting on your mind and it will activate circumstances and start bringing to you people, conditions and opportunities you need to actualize your goals and resolutions.
(9) Don’t give up.
Life is change. Sometimes things will go your way and other times it will not.
When it doesn’t go your way, don’t get mad, blame the devil, feel disappointed and give up. There is no devil causing you problems in life.
If you fall, get up and keep moving. Life is made up of ups and downs, understand it now and accept it. It is the facticity of life. Keep pushing ahead all the time. Refuse to give up.
As long as you keep moving, someday, you’ll reach where you’re going. And Avoid making excuses.
Remember you’re an immortal and life is endless. There is no beginning and no end. Life is movement. So, keep moving. Don’t be discouraged by failure. Keep moving on. Push ahead.
Never give up. Never quit. Quitters never win in life and winners never quit.
(10) Believe and Trust yourself.
To make your goals and resolutions succeed, you must believe and trust in yourself.
I tell you, my dear friend, unless you believe and trust yourself, nobody will.
Unless you belief and trust yourself, true success may not happen for you.
Most people fail in life because they don’t trust themselves. They have made many resolutions and set up many goals that failed and so became disappointed.
They listen to the pessimistic opinions of their family members and friends.
So, stay away from negative people who enjoy telling you all the time why you’ll never succeed.
Seek and associate with positive people who have the same ambitions in life like you do. Exchange ideas with them. Learn from them. Be creative. Do things differently from others. Be original.
Think about both sides of every thing before doing it. See the big picture.
Stop being limited. Think big and clearly and free your self. Let your imagination soar high to the blue sky.
No matter what happens to you in life, don’t give up on yourself. Never give up on your dreams and aspirations. Some dreams may take a short time to become a reality while others may take a long time, but all the same they will come true someday, if you keep moving on.
Make yourself number one, “numero uno”. Trust yourself. Listen to yourself. Respect yourself. Think well of yourself. Think of what is good for you.
Set up goals and resolutions. Then obtain all the necessary tools and resources to help you. Then take action. Read good books, watch good movies, and eat healthy food. Drink lots of juices. Engage in physical exercises or work out in the gym.
Think right. Network with the right people. Exchange ideas. Be alert and aware wherever you are. Stop being an automaton. Be civilized, keep the laws of your land and all will be well for you. Rise up and shine.
May long life, good health and success be yours.
Please feel free to print this article, publish it anywhere or e-mail it to your friends and colleagues.
Thank you.
Warmly,
I-key Benney
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Sunday, July 20, 2008

IMPROVE YOUR SELF WORTH!

why is it that some people are earning more than others though they are of the same age,educational qualification and perhaps graduated from the same school?is it that this people are more furtunate than their counterparts or is there some thing more?The friends of Arkad(in the richest man in babylon)asked him you Arkad are more furtunate than us,you have become the richest man in babylon while we struggle for existence.You can wear the finest apparel and eat the rearest foods,while we must be content if we can clothe our family on raiment that is presentable and feed them as best we can.Yet once we were all equal,we studied under the same master ......why then should fickle fate single you out to enjoy the good things of life while we are ignored who equally deserve the same treatment?"

There upon Arkad remonstrated with them saying "if you have not acquired more than a bare existence in the years since we were youths,it is because you either have failed to learn laws that command money or failed to observe them "what are the laws that command the flow of money?money does;t flow to age,coloure,race,height,degrees or qualifications infact it does't flow to hardwork,for we have many hardworking labourersn in pitiable conditions today.Rich people in my own opinion work less than the poor and yet makes more at the end of the day.

Money flows to value.A consultant earns more than an intern,not because he works more but because he's worth more.A manager also earns more than the messenger because he's worth more too.
You can't be paid more than your worth.So many people are working on a job,only few are working on themselves.And george crane said ,"there's no future in any job,the future lies in the man who holds the job.Your skill determines your value in the marketplace.Every one is gifted only few have skills.Every one is talented few are experts.Many have degrees few have the skill required.
Your skill is your cutting edge in the market place.Thats what will determine your greatness and worth in life.Your skill will determine where you will serve and where you serve will determine what you get. improve your self worth today by investing in your self and placing high levels of aspirations before yourself.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

10 Truly Inspirational Quotes - Which Will Motivate You To Greatness

I have put together 10 truly inspirational quotes, which I use to motivate myself during the tough times, when I feel down or that things aren't going my way. These quotes help to keep my mind strong and they remind me no matter how tough things become I can find a way to overcome and deal with whatever situation life has thrown at me.
Every man dies. Not every man really lives.William Wallace (Guardian of Scotland)
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face.Eleanor Roosevelt
We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.Ralph Waldo Emerson
I think and think for months and years. Ninety-nine times, the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right.Albert Einstein
Out of clutter, find simplicity. From discord, find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.Albert Einstein
Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.Mark Twain
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.Mark Twain
If you're going through hell, keep going.Winston Churchill
Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right.Henry Ford
Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.Corinthians 16:13
I hope you find some of these quotes inspirational if not find your own quotes that mean something to you. Use them as a guiding light or when you need a kick in the butt to get you going.

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